A father from East Sussex is sharing his story this Father’s Day to highlight the realities and rewards of being a full-time carer for his adult son, as part of a wider call to recognise the often unseen role of fathers who are carers.
Stephen Daniels (60), from Hastings, became a full‑time carer for his son Marcus (26), who has Down’s Syndrome, following the death of Marcus’s mother in 2015. What began as a caring role from birth became a lifelong commitment – one that Stephen says is simply part of everyday life.
“Caring is seven days a week, so Father’s Day is just another day in that respect,” Stephen says. “But what matters most is knowing Marcus is happy and well cared for.”
Marcus was diagnosed with Down’s Syndrome at birth and underwent early heart surgery as a baby. Today, he lives a full and active life, supported by his father, extended family and the team at Delore Care.
Stephen’s daily routine revolves around maintaining stability and familiarity – from getting Marcus to his day centre to ensuring he is supported at home.
“I get a lot of help from Delore Care,” Stephen explains. “They support with getting Marcus up and ready in the morning, and help settle him in the evenings. That support makes a big difference.”
While Stephen describes caring as something you “just get on with,” he acknowledges the challenges that are often unseen.
“It’s about patience,” he says. “Sometimes Marcus doesn’t want to do something, and you just have to take your time. Understanding his routines and what works for him makes everything easier.”
Despite the challenges, Stephen says the rewards far outweigh them.
“Seeing Marcus happy, laughing and smiling, that’s what makes it all worthwhile. At his brother’s birthday, he danced all night. Moments like that mean everything.”
Stephen, who previously ran a business, stepped away from work to care full‑time following his partner’s death.
“It changes your priorities,” he says. “You realise health and family are more important than making money.”
Supported by his wider family and professional carers, Stephen hopes to continue providing a stable, happy life for Marcus.
“I just want us to stay healthy and happy,” he says.
Kike Olatundun, Co-Founder and Operations Directorat Delore Care, added: “Stephen’s story highlights the importance of relationship‑centred care, where understanding routines, preferences and family dynamics supports both independence and wellbeing. At Delore Care, we believe empowering carers and families creates better outcomes for everyone.”
This Father’s Day, Stephen’s closing message to others starting a caring journey is simple:
“Follow your instincts and do what’s right for your family. It can be hard, but it’s also incredibly rewarding – especially when you know your loved one is being well looked after.”
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Notes to Editors
To request interviews with Stephen Daniels or Kike Olatundun, Delore Care’s Co-Founder and Operations Director, please contact delorecare@gecpr.co.uk.
Delore Care is a UK care provider delivering relationship‑centred domiciliary and residential care that enhances the everyday lives of the people it supports. Its care is never rushed or transactional; instead, it is intuitive, compassionate and tailored to each person’s needs, preferences and routines. By investing in and empowering its carers, Delore Care ensures dignity, independence and thoughtful support in every interaction. When carers are supported to perform at their best, the people they care for feel the difference.
- Image 1: L – R Marcus Daniels (26) and his dad Stephen Daniels (60)